From F. J. Wedgwood to H. E. Darwin [1867–72]1
Dear Harroty
I have been mea⟨ni⟩ng to write to you before yours arrived to Ho⟨ ⟩e, & tho I have not much to say on the subject of Shame yet the small contribution derived from that source together with the original matter in my brain ⟨ ⟩ enough to ⟨ ⟩ 1d worth, ⟨ ⟩ you must take ⟨i⟩t in ⟨pen⟩cil as my tiresome head does not like stooping forward to I cannot remember any ancient or e⟨v⟩en any but quite modern descriptions of people hiding their faces for shame. Indeed I don't think a Greek or Roman wd have known the feeling we meant by shame. The nearest approach to it I can remember is Paris’s answer to Hector’s reproach but ⟨tha⟩t is a mere half ⟨con⟩fession that he is not so manly as might ⟨be⟩ & has not the faintest approach to emotion in it.2
Thersites weeps when Ulysses taunts him but he does not cover his face.3 I think the emotion of shame is wrapped up with our modern sense of personal dignity of which the ancients had no conceptio⟨n⟩— the 2 things seem ⟨to⟩ me poles of the same magnet.
Milton has no face hiding, though he quite depicts shame Adam & Eve hide themselves when God calls them, but there is nothing about covering the face when they are discovered, & in the description of Dalilah before Samson “with head declined Like a fair flower surcharged with dew she weeps” but does not hide her face.4
The only passage I can remember is Guinevere when Arthur finds her & “prone off her seat she fell And grovelled with her face ag⟨ai⟩nst the floor: There with her milk white arms & shadowy hair She made her face a darkness from the King.” which rather bears out my idea that it is a nineteenth century bit of picturesqueness.5
On the other hand (but I dont know whether it is to the point when Uncle C⟨h⟩ asks for quotations to give facts, & of course Uncle Ch cannot care for so very obvious a fact as that people do cover their faces for shame)— Miss Gourlay6 told me when I was asking her if her girls ever went wrong of one of them (they are all the lowest of the low) who had gone to the bad & ⟨w⟩hen she (Miss G) found her in a hospital ran away from her & hid her face & cd not be persuaded to look up till Miss G had to go away.7 Of course she was not one to reproach the wretched creature. I do not remember the Dante quotation I will look for it ⟨&⟩ Wordsworth8
Goodbye dear Harroty | yr affec cousin FJW
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Footnotes
Bibliography
Milton, John. 1667. Paradise lost. A poem written in ten books. London: Peter Parker, Robert Boulter, and Matthias Walker.
Milton, John. 1671. Paradise regain’d. A poem. In IV books. To which is added Samson Agonistes. London: J. Starkey.
Tennyson, Alfred. 1859. Idylls of the king. London: E. Moxon.
Summary
The expression of shame in ancients, Milton, the Bible, and in poor girls under Miss Gourlay’s charge.
Letter details
- Letter no.
- DCP-LETT-7059
- From
- Frances Julia (Snow) Wedgwood
- To
- Henrietta Emma Darwin/Henrietta Emma Litchfield
- Sent from
- unstated
- Source of text
- DAR 181: 46, DAR 189: 140
- Physical description
- ALS 8pp inc † (by CD)
Please cite as
Darwin Correspondence Project, “Letter no. 7059,” accessed on 26 September 2022, https://www.darwinproject.ac.uk/letter/?docId=letters/DCP-LETT-7059.xml
Also published in The Correspondence of Charles Darwin, vol. 20